For Men Navigating Life After a Breakup or Divorce
Start Dating Again and Get Into a Serious Relationship in 12 Weeks Using the
Shadow Pattern Reset System
Without apps, pickup lines and tactics, or ending up in the same kind of relationship again.
(Guaranteed or your money back)
Results in 12 weeks
No long-term commitment
Cohorts of 6 men
Sound Familiar?
You see someone you’d want to talk to… and still hesitate or talk yourself out of it
You think about getting back into dating… but something feels off…like you’re not quite ready
You start conversations, but overthink what to say or how to follow up
You don’t want to waste time on the wrong person… but don’t fully trust your judgment yet
You want your next relationship to be different… but don’t know what you’d actually do differently
You don’t want to waste time on dating apps or use cheap pickup techniques or lines
Most men either force themselves back into dating…or avoid it altogether.
But neither actually solves the problem.
What determines your next relationship isn’t just when you start dating again…it’s how you show up once you actually like someone.
Why Do This With a Group of Men?
Shared Context
Everyone in the room understands the pain of a breakup and awkwardness of getting back out there.
Honest Conversations
You can talk openly without worrying about burdening your friends or family.
Accountability
Friends just want you to 'feel better.' This group is aligned around clarity, progress, and real change.
Pattern Recognition
Hearing other men process similar challenges makes it easier to see your own blind spots.
"I get really good feedback from the guys, I get a group of people to hold me accountable...Ari has been nothing but an amazing leader."
"Ari's been a great support in helping me understand what part of it was mine, where I was playing the victim, and how I could be happy again."
"I joined 12 months after my separation and to be supported through the process with a group of men was powerful."
Results From Men Like You
Here's Exactly How It Works
A simple, structured path to processing your breakup and moving forward.
Step 01
Apply for an Intro Call
Schedule a free 60-minute call to learn about the program and see if it's right for you.
Step 02
Join Your Cohort
Get matched with 5 other men going through the exact same challenges as you.
Step 03
Do The Work
Attend weekly two-hour Zoom sessions to process your breakup properly and feel ready to date again.
Step 04
Rebuild With Clarity
By the end of the program you’ll feel ready to date again and be attracting partners that want a serious relationship.
What's Included
Everything you need to process, reset, and move forward with confidence.
Guided Assignments
Weekly exercises designed to help you process the breakup and extract the lessons.
Private Support Network
Access to a private group with your cohort for continued support and conversation.
Weekly Live Calls
12 structured weekly group calls to reflect, grow, and stay accountable together.
Personal Guidance
Unlimited private 1-on-1 sessions during the program to ensure you hit your goals.
Common Questions
Everything you need to know before taking the first step.
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That's completely normal. Many men feel the same way at first. The group is designed to be a safe, confidential space. You can share at your own pace, and you'll quickly realize that everyone is there for the same reason. Most men find that the group becomes a source of strength, not stress.
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While therapy is valuable, this program offers something different: the perspective of other founders going through the same thing. You'll get accountability, pattern recognition, and a structured path forward that's specifically designed for processing breakups. Many participants do both.
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The guarantee requires full participation. If you can’t make every session, we’ll discuss whether the timing is right before enrolling.
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Full details including pricing and schedule will be shared on our intro call. However, you can expect a significant investment.
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No. Whether your breakup was last month or last year, if you're still struggling to move forward, this program can help. The key is that you're ready to do the work and committed to real change.
You Can Keep Waiting…
Or You Can Actually Move Forward
The next cohort starts May 2026. Space is strictly limited to 6 men. If you’re ready to start dating again and move toward a serious relationship, this is where it happens.
No obligation. Just a conversation to see if this is right for you.